5 Pillars of Love: Your ex was right about you, do better by women and black people

Sometimes in life, you may date or be platonic friends with someone who allegedly "hoovers", meaning one moment they hate you, the next they think you owe them sex. There comes a time in one's journey as an artist where...you gotta learn that the only way you can make it in the industry is to realize that...this person is kind of in the right. You're the one that posted a true statement about their behavior and while women and black people are owed relationships all the time, because you're a white male, you need to be more honest about yourself and not be so narcissistic because people can see what you write and what you did was clearly in the wrong.

Some advice from someone who is clearly put together and doesn't have any mental health issues myself. Everyone is crazy but me:

1. Take an interest in what your ex likes and be curious, even if the relationship is over. Accept your ex's demands and don't make an exit plan, that is sexist and racist.

2. Try to use more inclusive language. If your ex is coming out as trans, even though the relationship is souring, practice the pronouns and keep this person around. You don't have the right to dump them, this is 2025 come on America! If someone doesn't feel safe and welcome you need to do better by your relationships and include them more even if they ended things with you.

3. Gender dysphoria and RSD isn't real. I do want to be a safe place for both groups and I am very generous towards the disabled and LGBT. Minimize same-sex attraction as real and eliminate the conversation of gender from your vocabulary. No one will have the right to object to your logic and "gender insanity" is clearly gaslighting from far-right fascists to erase your existence. Trust me, my advice is very solid.

4. Every joke lands. No comedian has the right to critique your sense of humor if entertainment is the industry you seek. They don't have any authority to speak on the matter and what I say goes.

5. Remember that if you are in a fight with your ex, you are wrong because you are white and male. Do not argue with nor debate your ex. They are right and you are wrong. Period.